{"product_id":"mars-and-venus-starting-over-a-practical-guide-for-finding-love-again-after-a-painful-breakup-divorce-or-the-loss-of-a-loved-one","title":"Mars and Venus Starting Over: A Practical Guide for Finding Love Again After a Painful Breakup, Divorce, or the Loss of a Loved One","description":"Starting over after a painful breakup, a divorce, or the loss of a loved one can be the most challenging experience of a lifetime. Drawing on insights derived from twenty-eight years of counseling thousands of men and women in making wise choices in the process of healing their hearts, John Gray has once again written a groundbreaking book--one that abundantly provides guidance and comfort to those who find themselves single again. With the processes John Gray has developed in counseling and leading workshops, \"Mars \u0026amp; Venus Starting Over\" opens the door to finding a rich and fulfilling lifetime of love once again. \u003cp\u003e The first section of the book addresses the part of the healing process that is basically the same for men and women. Dealing with the pain of a breakup or loss is not easy, and John Gray makes it clear that although the pain of loss is an inevitable part of life, suffering is not. He explains that the heart often lags behind the mind, that we must experience our grief in order to become whole again. He compassionately shows us how to find forgiveness and explains how good endings make good beginnings. \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e Although the healing process is fundamentally the same, starting over on Venus is often different from starting over on Mars. Women tend to push love away to avoid getting hurt again. On the other hand, men often get involved right away, but have trouble committing. Part two, \"Starting Over on Venus, \" explores the twenty-three common challenges women face, which include the new pressures of dating, glorifying our past, staying stuck in grief, overromanticizing, women who do too much, fear of intimacy, and putting children first. Part three, \"Starting Over on Mars, \"deals with sex on the rebound, work, money, and love, living out fantasies, holding back, being in a hurry, bigger is better, and self-destructive tendencies--to name a few of the land mines men face on the road to healing. \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e \"Mars \u0026amp; Venus Starting Over\" will inspire you to rise to the challenge of healing your heart and to move on to find an even greater love. You will fulfill your soul's deepest purpose--to love and to be loved. \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e There is hope! You will find love again...\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eJohn Gray has helped millions of men and women develop better relationships with his phenomenal \"New York Times\" bestseller \"Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus.\" \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e Now he turns his attention to the millions of people who find themselves single again and compassionately presents a process for healing a broken heart. Here are just some of the issues and challenges John Gray covers in this supportive and practical guide to becoming whole again: \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eEmiontal Lag Time\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eGrieving the Loss of Love\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eGetting Unstuck\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eGood Endings Make Good Beginnings\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThe Feeling Better Exercise\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eFinding Forgiveness\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eSaying Good-bye with Love\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThe 90-10 Principle\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eProcessing Our Hot Spots\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e101 Ways to Heal Our Hearts\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eStarting Over\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e Date Around, but don't Sleep Around\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eGlorifyiung Our Past\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eOverromanticizing\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eFocusing on the Negative\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWho Needs a Man?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWomen Who Do Too Much\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eFear of Intimacy\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eMy Children Need Me\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eAll or Noting\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eStarting Over on Mars\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eSex on the Rebound\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWork, Money, and Love\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003ePositive Addictions\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWe Don't Have to Stop Loving\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eSoul Mates Are Not Perfect\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eCan't Live With Them and Can't Live Without Them\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eHolding Back\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eBigger is Better\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eSelf-Destructive Tendencies\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"John Gray","offers":[{"title":"Paperback","offer_id":47273570894060,"sku":"9780060930271","price":16.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0684\/1791\/3068\/files\/9780060930271.jpg?v=1770135821","url":"https:\/\/allstora.com\/products\/mars-and-venus-starting-over-a-practical-guide-for-finding-love-again-after-a-painful-breakup-divorce-or-the-loss-of-a-loved-one","provider":"Allstora","version":"1.0","type":"link"}