"Moments of vulnerability breathe life into the text; most effective is Paramo's inclusion of personal anecdotes. His candid account of his family's acceptance of his gay identity contrasted with their rejection due to his asexuality underscores the widespread misunderstanding of these identities." -- Allison Janicki, Foreword

"I recommend this book to both those new to ace, aro, and agender thought, as well as to those who want to continue thinking about the importance of troubling compulsory gender, sexuality, and romantic norms." -- Dr. Ela Przybylo, Illinois State University