Estranged: How Strained Female Friendships Are Mended or Ended

Susan Shapiro Barash

Book cover for Estranged: How Strained Female Friendships Are Mended or Ended
Book cover for Estranged: How Strained Female Friendships Are Mended or Ended
Book cover for Estranged: How Strained Female Friendships Are Mended or Ended
Book cover for Estranged: How Strained Female Friendships Are Mended or Ended

Estranged: How Strained Female Friendships Are Mended or Ended

Estranged: How Strained Female Friendships Are Mended or Ended

Susan Shapiro Barash

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Description

When life gets hard, we turn to our female friends. Husbands, partners, and jobs come and go, but close friendships are our bedrock. Until they're not.

What happens when these bonds sabotage instead of support? Who among us has the courage to walk away? And how can we protect ourselves from further heartbreak?

Susan Shapiro Barash takes a deep dive into the complexities of female friendships. By peeling back the societal narrative that our friendships are meant to last forever, she uncovers a more nuanced reality: the closest bonds do falter. Through groundbreaking research and 150 interviews with women ranging in age from 20-80, Barash reveals an emerging trend - estrangement among female friends.

Estranged is an eye-opening investigation/practical guide for women navigating murky waters of suboptimal friendships. The book sheds light on unspoken pain of estrangement - both for the "estranger" who walks away and the "estrangee" who is left behind. Amid candid confessions of betrayal and grief, Barash challenges women to reimagine their friendships and take the bold step of letting go when necessary.

This cutting-edge book offers an empowering path forward: learning to prioritize self-worth, stability and authenticity over loyalty to friendships that no longer serve us.

Critical Reviews

"Susan Shapiro Barash tackles a deep and significant issue for women of all ages. Women will be empowered and will love this book!"

-Karyl McBride, Ph.D., author, Will I Ever Be Good Enough? Healing the Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers

"After reading Estranged, I've come to believe every woman has experienced, or will experience, being abandoned by a close female friend. Estranged assures us we're not alone. A fascinating read."

-Mary Simses, author, The Wedding Thief

"Any woman who's experienced the disappointment of a broken friendship will find empathy, solace, and encouragement in this book. Through many interviews, with a professional's perspective on the complexities of female relationships, Susan Shapiro Barash brings new understanding to the myriad consequences of failed friendships."

-Diane Parrish, author, Something Better

"Susan's book confirms that our friendships should evolve as we do, and reminds us not to get stuck in patterns of obligation or expectation. The questions she asks readers to consider will help those struggling with a relationship while also strengthening their own self-worth."

-Janet Sherlund, author, Abandoned at Birth

Publishing Information

Publisher: Meridian Editions
Pub date: 2025-04-01
Length: 304 pages

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