Julia Cook, a former school counselor and teacher, has written many books on behavior and health for children. Her The Leader I'll Be series of storybooks uses rhymes and relatable situations to help children develop skills like compromise, integrity, and patients, so they can become positive leaders. Julia's goal is to make a positive difference in the lives of children, parents, and educators by teaching lifelong problem-solving skills to kids. She has received the Association for Educational Publishers Distinguished Achievement Award, and her books have been honored by the National Parenting Center and Mom's Choice Awards.

This book really hit home for my bossy and sweet 4-year-old. We are now working on being more flexible and we have a signal if she starts to be bossy that helps her remember to take a step back and listen to other's wants/needs. - Christopher F., Verified Purchaser

"I bought this for my 5 y/o daughter to help with her "bossy" attitude, mostly while at school. It really helps describe the difference between being bossy and being assertive. I like very much that it encourages to go for the things that you want but, teaches the power of flexibility and makes sure to include other's feelings as well instead of swapping bossiness for being a pushover. Great for encouraging your strong girls! - Sarah, Verified Purchaser

"I was scheduled to substitute teach the day after receiving this book in the mail. In a conversation with the teacher the night before, she asked if I had any new books to read to the children. I suggested this one and she thought it was perfect - especially for one of her students. We read the book and followed it up with a couple of exercises that the children loved. It really helped the children in the class understand that being flexible in their thinking is important and leads to better relationships." - Eva Goulette