"It doesn't matter if you are a man or woman this would be a great read for anyone who is single right now. This book shows you how to be confident in a relationship which is something I'm not very good at. I will say the people that the author is describing I have been both the not interested party and the person who was afraid that person would eventually leave.

This book teaches you how to be confident in yourself, and to be okay if things don't always work out. I learned so much from this book, and I now feel confident to start dating again after being single for a bit. There is a part in the start of the book that will show you your attachment style in relationships. I found this part extremely helpful to have while you continuing the rest of the book. You also learn why you might be anxious in relationships, such as something stemming from your childhood.

Linda Hill's books are my go to self improvement books, and I highly suggest you read her others that have been extremely helpful to me."

-Bella R.

"Linda Hill's comparison of the moth's behavior with light and that of partners is a simplistic yet realistic approach to relationships. From experience, I can testify that it is true for most couples who get too close; It never ends well. Distance is good in so many ways. I have felt suffocated before, but I have also suffocated others. There is indeed a thing as too much loving. Since I started reading Linda Hill's work, I have kept finding Eureka moments. She does not just tell us not to be too close. Instead, she offers a workable plan to attach healthily, develop genuine intimacy, see attachment anxiety in relationships, meditate on said relationships, and so much more. I think that with Linda Hill's writing popularized, the world will be able to revive dying relationships and, where none exist, form new and healthy ones. I wish the book could be added to the school curriculum since it has focused so much on IQ at the expense of EQ."

-Richard M.

"This book was extremely easy to read and follow and that is what I loved about it. There was language understandable for readers to follow and learn about the subject. If someone reads this and they recognize that this is occurring in their life they are able to not only identify it but also have a plan to follow the coping mechanisms provided in the book. It was a very enjoyable read and helpful."

-Edward B.

"Good content, and I liked that there were actionable steps outlined in this one. For anyone new to attachment theory, I think this would be a great resource, as it outlines the different types of attachment, possible reasons a person may tend toward one style over another, and for those with insecure attachment styles there are good tips on working toward secure attachment. You'll learn more about yourself and your partner and how to how love better, yourself and others."

-Emily M.