Soccer Dad
Soccer Dad
Soccer Dad
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Description
Description
Soccer Dad by David Murray is the memoir of a sports-ambivalent writer who saw his daughter from the kiddie leagues through the youth soccer gauntlet to a coveted Division I scholarship. And then realized his work had only begun.
From the first time he watched her toddle across the field, David Murray knew his daughter, Scout, loved soccer. Scout's drive and skill pulled the Murray family into the world of competitive youth sports, one as economically exclusive as it is culturally obsessive.
Youth sports is fun, but it isn't simple―especially for parents determined to raise a rounded human being as each new achievement presents more challenges.
In this nontraditional sports parenting memoir, David tries (and sometimes fails) to keep his perspective on the frenzied sidelines; in post-tournament happy hours; on the road to college "showcases;" and during soul-searching calls and late-night text sessions with Scout as she navigates the pressure of elite college sports.
On that journey, David contends with some of the essential questions facing parents of young athletes: How do you guide without steering, motivate without pushing, and protect without smothering? And how do you learn from other parents―their good instincts, and their bad?
With humor and wisdom, Soccer Dad helps soccer parents, sports parents, and all parents as we aim to feel less alone, make more conscious choices, and savor our time on the sidelines of our
About the Author
About the Author
David Murray is the author of several books, including An Effort to Understand: Hearing One Another (and Ourselves) in a Nation Cracked in Half (Disruption Books, 2021).
David is an award-winning journalist whose writing on sports and other subjects has appeared in The New York Times, the Chicago Tribune, The Atlantic, and many other publications.
He is also editor and publisher of Vital Speeches of the Day, one of the world's oldest continuously published magazines, and founder and executive director of the Professional Speechwriters Association. David writes daily on communication issues at Writing-Boots.com, and lives with his wife and daughter in Chicago.
Critical Reviews
Critical Reviews
"Soccer Dad is wise and funny and wonderful in every way. I think every sports parent (not just soccer dads) ought to read it."
--JONATHAN EIG, Pulitzer Prize-winning author of King: A Life and Ali: A Life
"I so enjoyed Soccer Dad--honest, funny, a breeze of a read, told with voice and palpable (but not maudlin) affection for the author's remarkable daughter. . . . A highly personal case study written from the inside. A gem of a book."
--ALEXANDER WOLFF, Sports Illustrated staff writer and New York Times bestselling author of Raw Recruit
"Murray is a fine writer, a clear thinker and a good dad."
--RICK KOGAN, Chicago Tribune
"On its face, Soccer Dad is a father's story about his daughter's sparkling soccer career. But this is as much a memoir of a modern parent trying to make sense of his child's gifts as it is a book about sports. I loved this book. Though it's (thankfully) devoid of treacle, it swells with heart."
--LINDA FLANAGAN, author of Taking Back the Game
"Murray knew very little about soccer when his young daughter started playing . . . and he knew even less about travel soccer. In these pages, he aims to educate parents in similar circumstances. . . A clear-eyed survey of the tradeoffs of elite youth competition."
--KIRKUS REVIEWS
"A vulnerable perspective of advocating for and raising a soccer player with big dreams in a confusing soccer system that does not always meet their needs. David's reflections and admissions are an important reminder: We must let our children lead the way, decouple ourselves from their playing journey, and seek adults we trust to guide them."
--SKYE EDDY, Founder of Soccer Parenting
"When I first read an excerpt of Soccer Dad, I couldn't help but think of my own dad who coached me for 10 years of my life and watched from the sidelines for many games beyond that. I saw myself and my family in the story I was reading thanks to David Murray's relatable and honest storytelling."
--ELLIE KRIEBEL, Youth Inc
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